So I've decided not to be an insecure parent any more and to prove it I'm going to tell you all the things I do.
I hold my baby, a lot, because I like to and if I were a baby I'd like to be held a lot too.
I use cloth diapers, on what I would consider a regular basis, in conjunction with disposables (because sometimes when you're out and about it's better to throw it away rather than smell up your car). They're great because they ALWAYS fit, I can load them to hold more if I need to (some nights he pees more than others don't ask me why) AND I don't have to feel guilty for changing his diaper because I feel like I need to even if he's only a tiny bit wet.
I let Kylan sleep with me, between Corey and I. I get more sleep and so does he. He has his own room with his own crib in case he'd like to sleep in it; in fact I put him in it sometimes for naps and the begining of the night, but in the end, he sleeps with me.
I wear my baby when I need both hands: loading the car, unloading the car, running errands (way better than packing that big heavy carseat around) & making dinner.
I let him play on the floor. He likes to crawl/skooch around and pull himself up on stuff. I'm raising a good little explorer.
I bring him rock climbing & camping with us. He loves to chew on sticks Corey has whittled. I let him play with dirt and dry grass and I clean him off when we're done.
I nurse my baby anywhere and everywhere it's necessary and I DO have a cover as a courtesy not as a necessity.
I don't currently feed him food. I feed him when he's interested, so when he's interested in more solid food I'll feed him more solid. He HAS had a banana because HE was interested and not because someone else was interested in his reaction.
I talk to my baby. I play games with my baby. Most importantly, I love and care for my baby :-)