Responsibility?

Ok, what exactly is responsibility? Is having money being responsible? How about a job or a calling? Dictionary.com defines responsible as "answerable or accountable, as for something within one's power, control, or management". So, then it is not the money or type of job that makes you responsible, but rather whether or not you actually pay your bills. Responsibility lies on what you do with what you have. It doesn't matter what type of job you may or may not have. I post this because I am getting the feeling that a few of you believe that I am not being a responsible person by getting married at this point of my life. Well, I have got news for you. When the spirit speaks to me I listen. Through it all I have been doing the best that I can with what I have got. Life isn't always a stroll up a 5.6, sometimes it gives you a v12 crux. It is what you do when you get to the v12 that makes you who you are. Work it, go home, or cheat your way around. I believe a person can be responsible in doing what he or she wants to do, so long as they meet their obligations and fulfill their promises and covenants. So, I ask again....... What is responsibility?