A Death and Family Gathering

Why is it that it takes a funeral to get a family together?  Ever since I was a little tyke both sides of my family held yearly family reunions, and we still keep at it.  I remember these events being full of cousins and being surrounded by family.  Every year I look forward to attending these events of joy.  As of lately though attendance has fallen dramatically.  Everyone has their own excuse and that is all that it is.... an excuse!  2ish years ago my mother's father passed away.  This funeral was the one event that brought all of my cousins together.  It had been close to 20 years since we were all under one roof!  Two days ago my father's step-father passed away.  His funeral is on Friday.  Relatives are coming from all over and I am sad.  Sad that this is what it takes to get us all together.  This is what it takes to get us all to take a step out of our busy lives to socialize with our families, the ones that we love the most.  I realize that sometimes there are instances that don't allow people to gather such as extensive distance ie: europe, australia, etc...  But those who live within an hour or two from the event have NO EXCUSE!!!!  Choose your priorities wisely!